‘My Five Worst Bosses’

‘My Five Worst Bosses’

The service industry sucks, that much I know. And, from my experience, I know retail work isn’t any better… Sometimes it can be difficult to pinpoint exactly what is wrong with your manager, sometimes it’s blindingly obvious… I want tell you all about my worst bosses, and for you to consider yours, and hopefully we’ll all work out how to be better people along the way! Happy National Boss day everyone!

Me and my hardworking friend I met earlier this week taking his lunch break, we talked about his overbearing boss...

So my first boss was head chef in a male dominated, pseudo nice, kinda grotty, kitchen. We served roasts, and chips, and other stuff I’m not so sure on, I was really only acquainted with the potatoes - peeling buckets full daily... and washing dishes too. They made me wear this tight white t-shirt as a uniform, no apron allowed –‘just for chef’s, sorry’, and while I’m washing pans intentionally splash water on me, so my shirt went see-through. And it makes my blood boil now. if I could speak to that young girl… and let’s just pause, I was young, I was 15-16 at the time and working for pennies. If I could speak to any young girl, many no doubt experiencing similar sexual harassment in the workplace, I’d say tell someone, then leave. Money’s tight sure, but get the hell outta’ there!

Then, there was this one boss who I told short notice that I had to take the weekend off, to visit a dying and quickly deteriorating relative. It was a weird one if I’m honest, she refused. She’d been pretty nice and calm up until that point, but when I told her this she refused to let me take ‘unplanned holiday’ and proceeded to tell me about the importance of proper planning… anyway, I kept my calm, and quit right then and there. I was young, and people love to lecture kids to make themselves feel more important.

There was this other manager who kept implying that I was stealing from the till, just joking, sure, but still! And every day when I would be drinking a coke he would say, ‘I hope you’ve paid for that! Haha!’ – like, of course I’ve paid for that, please don’t try and embarrass me daily for your own entertainment. I was still young, and it did embarrass me.

Another time, it turns out I’ve got the same name as my boss, and she takes an instant disliking to that. I think she thought she was special… and damnit she is special, and a unique person, which I can now appreciate from a distance. But I needed to grow - good bosses don’t inhibit their employees growth.

I was working in a kitchen again, and I had this one boss, now this guy was young, but he’d blagged it to the top of a young kitchen run by an inexperienced business owner, anyway this guy was head chef. I was mainly washing pots and cleaning down after service, helping out in the rushes with the easy dishes. And Mr Boss was fine, I was a couple years younger than him, but he treated me fairly. I could wear black t-shirts and aprons, it was fine.

But the head chef was angry, like seriously had a temper on him; a huge ego made worse by a drug problem. This one day, the guy’s taken Xanax the night before, so his hefty opioid comedown has really set in by the early afternoon. Anyway, he’s super tired, he lives in the flat above so he goes upstairs to lie down. He’s like ‘ you two just make the food, let the washing pile up, everything else is calm, see you later’. So, it’s OK, by this point I do vaguely know how to make all the menu.

Anyway we get a rush on, we’re crazy people, frying peppers and onions while wrapping up burritos each one slightly different, like crazy people. The line’s cooling down after a couple hours when the head chef walks down the stairs yawning, notices that a pan of sauce has burnt on the back burner of one of the stoves. It’s important to note this guy had made the sauce then put it on the back burner without telling anyone, and then gone upstairs to sleep. The guy empties out the burnt sauce, see’s it’s stuck like hell on the pan’s bottom, and throws it down on the floor. Then the he proceeds to shout at us for fifteen minutes straight, in front of customers, detailing just how and why we were such morons to have left the sauce on, all while we’re still serving a line of embarrassed hungry people who can’t leave because they’ve already paid and are still waiting for their food.

I quit that job soon after and with the money I saved I went to Barcelona, and I didn’t think of the head chef once. Sometimes I feel the best way to deal with an annoying boss is to think about them as little as possible. There’s some satisfaction to be had when the person occupies as little of your mind as possible. Work always seems to get me down most when I think about it in my time off. Like when you’re a kid, dreaming of going to school, then getting up and actually going to school. When work’s already draining, it drags so much more when it occupies your free time as well.

I think that a lot of the time, a big ego is a reason why bad bosses become terrible ones. I’ve noticed this most in the kitchen, where people wear their ego on their sleeve. But it’s certainly the truth in other jobs too. Take for instance any job where you’re pressured to sell anything as much as possible, so, all jobs really…

As well as making bad leaders worse, ego can also get in the way of really good management. Think back to your old, bad, bosses, where they went wrong, instances where they treated you badly, and then don’t replicate that behaviour with your staff! Are there any turns of phrase that particularly annoy you? -Don’t use them. Try to keep your personal opinions and frustrations away from your management. Simply, just don’t bring gender, sex, race, or politics into your management. Don’t embarrass your members of your team, don’t take your anger out of them, and don’t unnecessarily lecture them. And I don’t want to think I have to tell anyone this, but don’t sexually harass your employees. Try to think when your behaviour and language might make someone feel uncomfortable. If you’re a boss now, try to take something positive away from your old, awful, bosses – learn from them; treat people better and teach others to do the same.

How To Maintain Your Coloured| Herbal Essences Ignite My Colour REVIEW

Don't you just love that feeling that you get after you've dyed your hair! And your hair just feels silky, smooth, and healthy! Well, it's one of the best feelings for me, which is why #haircare is so important for me, especially using products that will not only enhance my look, but will also keep the vibrance and color-popping for longer,  rather than wash it away. And trust me,  we don't want all that money to be wasted, especially for those spending thousand on their hair. So, let me let you into a little secret! The key to keeping your dyed/bleached hair popping is a great shampoo and conditioner. And my choice is Herbal Essence Ignite My Colour, which I use as part of my hair care routine!


Why Should You Choose Herbal Essences Ignite My Colour Shampoo and Conditioner?

The combination of both these products does what it says on the bottle as it literally ignites your color, by providing certain properties to enhance your look, which is due to some of the ingredients used.

Shampoo And Conditioner

Shampoo

One of the ingredients this shampoo includes is called sodium lauryl sulfate, which contains antibacterial properties, which helps protect hair from growing harmful pathogens. Also, sodium lauryl sulfate- which should generally only used in small amounts in retail products- thickens solutions which make it easier to apply,  creating better absorption, which in turn makes the product smoother and gives it a more luxurious texture. And when I apply the product to my hair, it does lather quite well, which helps me make the bottle last longer. Which I must say I find useful as my own hair is quite coarse and requires a lot of solution.



Conditioner 

While the conditioner even though it does share similar ingredients, it includes Behentrimonium methosulfate which the shampoo doesn't have.  An ingredient that works effectively in smoothing out the hair, due to the fact that the properties of these ingredients are effective in detangling while also thickening the hair. This is a useful addition for me, being that I like to bleach and colour my hair which can leave my hair quite dry, resulting in tangled hair. So, having a conditioner that works towards fixing this situation, is like a holy grail for us thick-haired girls who love colour!
 In addition,  both the shampoo and conditioner include a Moroccan rose and fruit scent, so once you're done applying both, your hair colour will not only flourish, but it will smell clean, fresh and sweet, and not like you've just put chemicals in your hair!

But What About the Sulfate?

I know what your thinking,  sulfate really? But the ingredients in sulfates are used in a lot of shampoo and soaps, as they are effective in removing dirt and grime. However,  the thing with sulfates is that they can be too effective and can at times remove more oil than needed depending on the individual's hair type and sensitivity.  But the amount of sulfate used in retail products should generally be safe, and honestly, if your ok with using products with sulfate there's no reason you shouldn't continue unless you experience redness or irritation, and have other similar concerns.

After Care

• For best results, it's best to wash hair 24-48hours after you've colored your hair, so the colour can settle.
• I suggest starting off with mild lukewarm water to allow the shampoo properties to penetrate the hair better. Then rinse off with cold water after conditioning. Think of it like a facial, as you use warm water to open up your pores, this time it's your hair follicles your opening up so the product can penetrate. And you finish off the facial with a cool toner. And it's just that this time you're finishing off your #hairaftercare with a conditioner and cold rinse to close hair follicles like you would close your pores.
• Use a swimming cap when entering chlorine processed water, as chlorine can strip natural oils from your hair which in-turn makes your hair look dry and the colour you dyed it will look faded and unhealthy. So it's safe to safe avoiding chlorine is a good solution.

So, in general, I have enjoyed using these Herbal Essences Ignite My Colour, as I found that my hair feels replenished afterward. Plus, with the help of my hair care regime, this product helps to bring out my colour. Additionally, I haven't experienced anything negative regarding my scalp or hair.

Where To Buy Products 

Herbal Essences Shampoo 

Price: £3.00

Herbal Essences Conditioner

Price: £3.00

Swimming Cap

Price: £5.50

5 Liquid Eyeliners On A Budget

Eyeliner is like what an accessory is to your outfit. It is the epitome of what I like to call the finishing touch to an outfit and your make-up routine. Whiter you choose to do a wing liner, or you go for the classic swoop, or straight line, it just makes your eyeshadow and eyelashes just pop. So, below I review 5 liquid eyeliners that are less than £5.00. 

1. Primark
P.S LOVE LIQUID EYELINER

Price: £1.00

Primark make-up had a lot of people skeptical in the beginning, especially with the pricing, but I must say some of their products like their eyeliner was very surprisingly good. The color is black and is in between matt and shiny, so you get a bit of both worlds. The tip is also thin, which can be beneficial for some, but if you like thicker tips, then this isn't the right one for you. Also, something to be mindful of is that people have reported that the tip starts to fall apart after a while, which means the had to trim off 'split ends' quite a few times.



2. PoundStore

Price: £1.00

Yep, you read it right, I have added pound store to this list. And I must say, this store has saved my make-up budget a few times, as my budget has to cover a few make-up items that have become a staple in my routine which means sacrificing a few more coins in those areas. So, this only leaves me with a few pounds to spare, and the worst thing is when this happens and your eyeliner is finished! And this happened to me once, so I paid Pounstore a visit, and I picked up an eyeliner, and now I go back there to top up every once in a while. This eyeliner, I would say is perfect for beginners, as the liquid is more solid than other liquid eyeliners. But something to take into consideration is that it drys really quickly, and it looks dry, so you have to go over certain areas more than once to give it back it's shine. Plus, there's not a lot of product in the container, and you will need a top-up during the day.


3. Elf 
Expert Liquid Liner

Price: £3.00

This liner does apply smoothly, and it does what the names say's as it is liquidy, so you get a lot of product out when you dip, so you don't have to worry about it running out halfway when applying. However, one thing that you should note is that some people have reported that the eyeliner leaves a blue tint when they have tried to remove it. Overall, the eyeliner will last you through the day as it stays on quite well.


4. Etude House 
Oh ~m

Price: £3.92

This eyeliner includes a smudge-proof formula, that I must say helps it last for a while, especially with the waterproof added effect, which makes eyeliner very durable. Plus, the tip is thin, which helps with application. In addition, the wand itself is easy to hold and has a nice grip. However, some things to consider are that; some people have said that the product within the container gets clumpy after a while, and the product can also look cakey, instead of smooth and seamless.

5. Kiko
Precision Eyeliner

Price: £4.89

This line is perfect for you if want to do cool, and more intricate designs with eye-liner. Which is due to the fact that the brush has a thin tip and thick base, which makes it easy to apply.  And I must say this liner really lives up to its name!

Top Tips

• Be mindful that without a lot of practice liquid eyeliner is a messy job, as it is runny, so it takes practice to understand how to control the liquid. Plus be aware that it takes longer to dry, so leave your eyes closed for longer before opening them helps not to smudge
• Be careful how you place the brush back in the pot, as one wrong move and you'll have bit's of the brush tip sticking out from different angles
• With cheaper eyeliners, the brushes are sometimes not as soft and tend not to last as long as more expensive liners
• Use a cuticle cutter to trim unwanted fibers.
• If you want to do design, I would suggest going for more expensive liners

Lynn Trieu xoxo

Hot Shoes For Summer | Office 2019

Finding the right shoe for summer can be tricky, as you want something that is comfortable, doesn't get too hot, and something that makes you and your outfit look more amazing than it is.  So, in light of that,  I visited Office, and found some cool hot summer shoes just for you!

How To Tie A Sarong| #Bikiniseason

Hi Beautiful!

This weekend I went away and I really enjoyed, to the point that I feel so bloated! And it's bikini seasons, and feeling bloated doesn't really do much for my confidence, as I don't even feel like myself. And yes, body confidence and is very important, but sometimes you just need that extra push. And I found a 'loophole' with this sarong, that allows me to show off my figure, but at the same time being loose around the stomach and thighs, means that I can eat to my heart's content without feeling bad. But of course a sarong is also a statement item, so I came up with four top sexy ways you can use this one material to create four outfits. Hope you watch and enjoy!

P.S it only cost £3.00 from Primark

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How To Turn A Sarong Into 4 Outfits|Primark £3.00 Sarong A sarong is a style that literally embodies ‘two for the price of one’, as you can make various styles and outfits out of one material! I know right amazing! And I was able to find this beautifully patterned sarong at the price of £3.00 from @primark! And that cost is nothing compared to the fact that I made four outfits out of this one material. So make sure to check out the video as I show you how it's done! And don’t forget to like and share the video dolls😘😘 Follow: @lynn.trieu Subscribe to Blog: https://lynntrieufashion.blogspot.com/ #sarong #primark #fashion #instagood #OOTD #Asians #blogger #sale #style #beautiful#goodmorning #loveisland #UrbanOutfitter #fun #funfashion #Fashion #fahsionista #Stylish #FashionBlogger #Womensfashion #Lookbook #WhatIWore #Fashiondiairies #fahsionstyle #styleBlogger #Blog #london

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Accessorize Haul| Can Accessorize Accessories Your Bikini Wardrobe?

 Accessorize Haul| Can Accessorize Accessories Your Bikini Wardrobe?

Have you ever wondered what keeps Accessorize so fun and vibrant? And have you ever been like me ( I know I’m ashamed to say) and thought how the heck does a company stay in the market just selling accessories? Well, for one thing, accessories are staples for your everyday outfit and can bring your outfit from 0-100 real quick. So yes it is possible to run a successful business with this as your brand. And secondly, they sell amazing…wait for it clothes…or shall I say half clothes in my case? I found these beautiful flowery and vibrant bikini’s and cover-ups that will turn the heat up on your holiday for sure. And of course I had to team up one of my outfits with a lovely accessory, from Accessorize as where would be the fun in going to store that is named Accessorize without actually buying an accessory(and yes I am aware I have pretty much said Accessorize and accessory  like a trillion times, so how about you take a shot of wine (safely) every time I do). 

BIKINI’s

Outfit 1                                                                                                 Outfit 2

I chose an array…ok, I’ll be honest it's not an array as two of these basically look like they could literally be sisters, but trust me there’re two different bikinis. The first flowery bikini not only contains pastel flowers-with some reminding me vastly of water melons-the straps are positioned in the middle of your chest rather than the shoulder. Which I felt added a little of support (and I do emphasis on little as lets not go wild and amuse it has the same structure of your perfect shaped bra), while avoiding the unflattering straps that accompany some bikinis, which I hate as they make my arms look more ‘manly’ than they actually are. While this one avoids that and instead places more attention onto my breast, emphasizing the curves that you have in-between your boobs. And let's not forget the bottoms, which definitely show off some legs. 

And of course, I teamed this with this silk pastel pink headband from Accessorize which literally called out to me when I was shopping.  It not only complements the bikini which has similar undertones, but it also feels sooooooooo soft on your head, helping to keep sweat away due to the silk, as well as keeping my flyaways in check, and tightening my forehead muscles, giving me a natural ‘botox’ look.

My second flowery bikini, even though it has the same flower theme is completely different in style, being that the top half comes off as more of a cropped corset /bodice. But what I must say it came out slightly big on me. So, I don’t feel the support that I would have assumed it came with due to the style. But I love this blue, as it more noticeable compared to the other pastel bikini which blends really well with my skin tone.

And last but not least this teal green silk Bikini….my gosh…feels so gorgeous on the skin, like I’m wrapped in a spoonful of comfort and softness. And let's just say I really didn’t want to take it off!

OUTFIT 1:
Top: £9.00
Bottom: £8.50
Necklace: £15.00

OUTFIT 2:
Top: £22
Bottom: £18.00
Necklace: £11.00
Headband: £10.00

MAXI COVER-UPS
Black Maxi Dress

It's like a match made in heaven! I teamed the pastel bikini with this teal maxi cover-up, and I must say I’ve never seen a more perfect match even better than some of the contestants on Love Island! (haha). Plus the stretchy lightweight material, just glides on your skin, while also giving you that needed a touch of sass to own that beach.

Which is opposite with this black cover-up, which I felt was the needed contrast to neutralize the color of the second blue flowery bikini, as the bikini can be quite in your face the more you look at. And this combination is like dying and yang, as without out the other the work, but together they balance each out. Plus, like the mint teal cover-up, it is also stretchy, with the added slimming effect due to the color black. 

Lastly, this triangle-shaped white linen cover-up is too cute and lets the bikini shine. This is due to the fact that the color and style is still visible, and created an added pop of color that really works well. Also, what I must say is that if you're going for a sexy approach, this is not the outfit for you as it’s not flattering and doesn’t emphasis your assets. It instead is what I call comfort with style.

Black Maxi Dress
Price: £39.00

Blue Maxi Dress
Price: £28.00

White Maxi Dress
Price: £49.00

Also, even though I combined these outfit this way, don’t let that stop you! Try different combinations, and remember to have fun!!

Bag
Bag 1                                                                                                       Bag 2

The straw bag is dainty, lightweight and a neutral color, which is perfect as we already have a lot going on with this outfit. And straw bags are in again this summer, so get ahead of the game and start rocking yours!

Bag 2

This bag is an illusion itself, as you don’t seem to know where it starts or stops, as it's like an endless design of pattern and daintiness.
Bag 1
Price: £22.00
Bag 2
Price:  £13.50
Bag 3
Price: £17.50

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Urban Outfitters Haul|Spice Up Your Summer Wardrobe

Have you ever walked past Urban Outfitters and not actually gone, in because you thought it was outside your budget? Or you just didn't think you were cool enough to actually rock their clothing? Well even though the latter could be true for you, it's sometimes therapeutic to shop for yourself, and this does mean splurging once in a while. And yes, Urban Outfitters is tailored for 20 somethings yeard olds, but this shouldn't stop you, or you shouldn't feel disheartened, as fashion is about expressing what you want in your life. And if you want a new fresh look, that makes you not only look beautiful but brings out your youthfulness this summer, then let fashion decide! And not people's comments that you can't be in your 40s and dress and feel sexy, because I sure didn't! And I don't let social norms that being a mum or just an older woman, you have to hide away in unflattering outfits! And retail therapy is about dressing for success, so if you want to feel young, dress like it! And throw away those unflattering dress! So, to help you out a bit as I know it can be daunting, here's what  I brought from Urban Outfitters.

Long Maxi Skirt + White Crop  Top

This is what I call my beach babe look! So, with the length of the skirt, you would think it would be heavy, but its the complete opposite. Instead, it's so freeing, that it has me dancing, as the skirt flows with your movements. While the added slit at the front means that you don't have to walk like a penguin because the split creates added movement and space. This is helped by the lightweight cotton/linen material used, that not only feels like amazing quality, it also looks it! Plus, the flowers are a great touch, as long maxi skirts can sometimes look military, but these flowers make them more dainty. Which is why I chose this linen white crop top, which gave me beach girl vibes. In addition, the color of the top which is a mix between white and light cream, add values, as it does not overpower the skirt, but it's also not so plain that it's unnoticeable.  So, overall this is an outfit I would definitely wear on a picnic or beach day out that doesn't involve swimming.

Denim Shorts + Pink Long Crop Top

I'm the kind of person that either goes for denim jeans or denim short shorts, not really anything in between! And I'll admit when I brought these let's call them quarter length jeans, I was initially skeptical, as it's a style I've never tried before, until today. And let's say I was actually pleasantly surprised, being that even though they're denim, the jeans are quite soft, which does allow for some movement that I wasn't initially expecting. But that doesn't mean its stretchy and doesn't mean that you can go down a couple sizes, it just means that like me you don't have to pull, and jump up and down just to get into the jeans! So, yes these quarter length shorts definitely agree with me, and the dark blackish/grey color compliments the pink crop top so well, that I feel as if it gives these denim shorts a pinkish hue/tint! Or it may be that I loved this color so much, I feel like its combined with these denim shorts(haha). Another perk about this top is that the elastic band at the bottom means you can pull it down so that it meets the jeans and goes from a crop top into a cute pink top. or if you prefer it be a crop top, the elastic at the bottom is flexible enough so that when you place it on your belly,  as it snaps right into place.

Wide Leg Jumpsuit

I definitely had to add a jumpsuit into the mix, and this cute little jumpsuit I must say is the perfect find, as it's a mix between sexy, comfortable, and 'i can literally take on anything' vibe. The linen material is loose, meaning that even though the color is black, it won't stick to your body, as it has a bit more of a resistant to sweat. And the wide leg style gives you more of a wider range of option of various shoes you can style it with, and not having the awkward moment when the jumpsuit doesn't quite reach your ankles so it seems it's way too short for you. Instead, it covers the ankles, meaning it can be placed over any shoe of your choosing. But I must say if you want to be a bit more daring without showing to much skin, the side boob is your perfect go too, as it adds the much-needed sexiness to this outfit, giving you a creative look. But do be careful and make sure the jumpsuit covers half of your boob at the front as we wouldn't want to have a case of a nipple slip!!

Playsuit

The reason why I'm in love with playsuits is that they're literally so playful, as they show off your legs. And this is exactly what I got from this playsuit, plus it's not too short that your bum hangs out, and not too long that it makes your legs look short. Instead it loose at the sides giving the illusion of wider hips, while the belt that is attached to the waist is long enough that you can tie it tightly. Which is very helpful, as without it I don't like how it sits on my body, as it looks too baggy, as due to the material, it means it drops down a bit more than I would like. On the other hand, the material does have its perks, as linen provides a cooling layer which is derived from the fibers that are weaved into the fabric, that allows more airflow, meaning that it is less likely to stick to the skin.  Additionally, at first glance, the brown of this playsuit seems quite dull, but trust me it can still be styled with dark colors accessories and footwear. Plus it has pockets!!

Yellow and White Smock Dresses

A good dress can make all the difference and I was able to find two of these in Urban Outiffters, one is a yellow smock dress, with a puffy shoulder design to die for. The puffy shoulder style leaves room to either wear them covering your entire shoulder or if your feeling fun that day, wearing them halfway down your shoulder, which transforms the dress into an off the shoulder dress. This means you literally have two outfits in one!

 While the white dress, opens at the back, and the dress itself also has some form of elastic near the boob area giving your breast the needed lift, if you choose the go braless. Overall, both dresses give you a sort of cute angelic feel, and I must say, someone, did mistake me as my daughter's sister when I wore the white dress!

So that's it for today, but if you want tips and ideas on how to style these five outfits, please watch my styling video by clicking on this link here: 

Lynn Trieu

xxx

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